What is Yours?

You find yourself in an unimaginable spot, questions ruling your mind at every step of the way. You sit down, close your eyes and for a moment you try and dig through your memories to find out some good thoughts. You fail. 

You get up, wash your face, put on that mask which deceives everyone, everyday. You get along with the day. You work your heart out just to let those thoughts stay away from you. You overwork. But just when you thought you have made some headway, they strike back with vengeance. You are like the lone tree in a fierce storm, counting the moments down to the time you will be blown away.

A ticking bomb.

You get home, tired and rusted. Fumble your way through the lines of the diary, bringing out all the sad thoughts that made your lone journey back home unbearable. You curse yourself, for no apparent reasons. You flip through the pictures of your college life. You see the faces that were once all over you. 

Now gone.

You think you need to call someone up. You grab the phone, run down the phonebook. Even though you have hundreds of friends in your list, you still can't call a single person. You heave a sigh. Then mysteriously, an SMS pops up. Who is it again? Ah! The salary just got credited.

But you have no one to tell. Within a couple of days, you reckon, half of it will go on to pay up for rent and other stuff. And the situation drags on. And then it hits you -

"What is mine?"

You think of asking this to someone in a pathetic attempt to find some kind of revelation that may be you didn't even know. But then there is no one you can ask this for the very simple reason that no one else has been with you through and no one can suggest you anything as for the simple reason that they don't know any of it.

You have lent your ears countless times to those who needed you in their tough times, but they are now much gone. Your friends are eager to know about you through Facebook, but don't have the patience to withstand for a whole minute on a call. They are just too busy.

For a moment you wish you were alone to begin with. What's the point of having friends if they have to leave you some day? Are those friends yours forever? You and me both know the answer.

The answer to the seemingly simple question is this - No. Nothing is yours. You are a part of someone else's journey and so is someone to yours. Everything is momentary. It is much better to not bend down and lose the person than to do it and lose them anyway.

You will have your self respect. Nothing else. That is what stays with you till the last breath you take..and some memories. 



  1. I don't have to write anything here. Coz you already saw my face after reading it.

    One of the best in your blog collection. Period.

    :). I am happy.

  2. ... You are a part of someone else's journey ... I like that.

  3. Zen like- Nothing is yours. You are a part of someone else's journey and so is someone to yours.

  4. Feels like u pour my feelings here.. thnk u so much fr ans m looking fr.. loved this blog... keep it up.. :)

  5. Nice reflection! Once I'm truly my own best friend, the trip gets easier.

  6. Nicely expressed. And every friend feels the same. but they keep moving.
    And we will be pretty carefull that our ego is not misinterpreted by our minds as self respect.
    If we need them, we will keep them.

  7. Can't express my feelings in words. Can just say one thing never stop writing and helping people with your blogs. They really work.

  8. Gave me *Gosebumps*would love to quote Kabir here-Ud jayega hans akela , jag darshan ka mela -jaise paath gire tharuvar se milna bahuth duhela, na jaane kidhar girega lagya pawan ka reda -means ppl here are compared to leaves shredding from trees, one moment they are with you next a blast of wind carries them away difficult t meet again atleast on mental level ! so enjoy today with close ones you have :)


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